Feelings Don’t Fix Cars: Action Over Emotion in Shop Leadership [RR 1063]

Thanks to our Partners, NAPA Auto Care and NAPA TRACS

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Tonnika Haynes, owner of Brown’s Automotive in Chapel Hill, North Carolina—a family business founded by her father, William Brown, in 1980—joins us for a conversation recorded live at the ASTA Conference in Raleigh, NC. Together, we explore the powerful and defining mentorship that shaped both her leadership and her legacy.

Tonnika shares that she never worked for her “dad,” she worked for William Brown, the business leader. That separation became clear when, early in her ownership, she faced her first major crisis: losing a key employee.

When she called her father for guidance, it wasn’t “Dad” who picked up; it was William Brown. His advice was blunt but transformative. Instead of sympathy, he challenged her: “What would you do if they got hit by a bus?  You can’t sit in it, move forward.”

It was a defining moment that taught her the importance of separating emotion from action. As William often reminded her:

  • “We don’t have time for feelings right now. We have time for fact and action.”
  • “Feelings don’t fix cars. Facts and movement fix cars.”

This heartfelt episode highlights the power of tough love, mentorship, and maintaining emotional discipline in business. Tonnika’s story is a testament to how strong roots and even stronger lessons can prepare the next generation to lead with both heart and backbone.

Tonnika Haynes, Browns Automotive, Chapel Hill, NC

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About the author, Carm Capriotto, AAP

Carm is the founder and host of the Remarkable Results Radio Podcast and the pioneer of automotive aftermarket podcasts. Carm calls on his years of experience in the aftermarket to bring engaging stories from his guests.

Listen to raw, unfiltered, honest, and sincere stories that include insights, trends, best practices, and expertise. Each interview brings an opportunity to learn one new thing through the stories of personal achievement. Many podcast guests tell their story of transformation from working in their business to working on it.

As host of over 1,000 episodes, Carm uses his enthusiasm and passion for the aftermarket especially the service sector to take his listeners on a journey showcasing successful service professionals’ paths to Remarkable Results. He also enjoys interviews with aftermarket industry thought leaders who bring their industry perspectives to his listener.

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